Cultivating Thinking Hearts

Cultivating Thinking Hearts: A Journey into Lifesharing and Community Building ​

This document, Cultivating Thinking Hearts, is a heartfelt exploration of lifesharing—a conscious, intentional way of living that fosters deep relationships, mutual care, and community. ​ Authored by Helen Zipperlen and John O’Brien, it draws on decades of experience with lifesharing households, intentional communities like Camphill and L’Arche, and broader efforts to integrate people with developmental disabilities into society. ​ Through letters, essays, and reflections, the authors share insights on building healthy, inclusive communities where everyone’s gifts and vulnerabilities are valued. ​

The text dives into the challenges and joys of lifesharing, offering practical advice for parents, advocates, case managers, and community builders. It emphasizes the importance of mutuality, trust, and the art of inviting others into meaningful relationships. ​ Key themes include safeguarding vulnerable individuals, cultivating thinking hearts, and creating spaces for renewal and reflection. ​ The authors also explore the evolving role of government, human services, and intentional communities in supporting lifesharing.

Readers will find inspiring stories, thoughtful frameworks, and actionable ideas for fostering lifesharing relationships in their own lives. Whether you’re a parent navigating decisions for a child with disabilities, a community organizer, or simply someone seeking deeper connections, this document offers a wealth of wisdom and encouragement. ​ It’s a call to imagine a better world and start living in it—together. ​