This document captures the essence of a gathering held on March 18, 2000, at the Dumas Center in Federal Way, Washington, where about 40 individuals came together to explore the transformative power of circles of support. Facilitated by John O’Brien and Connie Lyle O’Brien, the event celebrated the beauty of intentional relationships that foster inclusion, reciprocity, and community.
Through personal stories and reflections, participants—ranging from people with disabilities to parents, neighbors, and friends—shared how circles create spaces for connection, courage, and growth. The discussions highlight how circles are formed, often sparked by unmet needs, dissatisfaction with systems, or life transitions, and how they thrive through shared purpose, social gatherings, and mutual care.
Key themes include the importance of celebrating individual gifts, focusing on what people can do rather than deficits, and embracing vulnerability and risk to build meaningful relationships. Circles are described as organic, evolving processes that require intention, attention, and the courage to invite others in. They are not about fixing people but about creating spaces where everyone feels valued and accepted.
The document also explores practical insights, such as the role of facilitators, the importance of reciprocity, and strategies for sustaining circles over time. It emphasizes the joy of coming together, whether for celebration or support, and the profound impact of fostering community in a world often marked by isolation. Readers will discover a heartfelt exploration of how circles of support can transform lives, build stronger communities, and remind us of the deep human need for connection and belonging. This is a celebratio