This document dives into the heart of creating meaningful lives for people with developmental disabilities (DD) by exploring practices that foster belonging, choice, valued social roles, contribution, and shared spaces. It emphasizes the importance of cultural change, urging readers to challenge societal norms like being “too busy” and embrace spaciousness—making time, slowing down, and shifting perspectives to truly see the gifts and identities of individuals with DD.
Through intentional relationship-building, the document highlights how families, friends, and communities can support people with DD in showing up in new, impactful ways. It contrasts relational approaches, which focus on trust, commitment, and personal growth, with transactional systems that prioritize efficiency and compliance. The relational approach is championed as a way to unlock resilience, innovation, and deeper community connections.
Readers are encouraged to reflect on their assumptions, notice the effects of labels, and seek stories of human resilience, lasting relationships, and community-building. The document also calls for public conversations about how communities can better embrace the contributions of people with DD, resisting the growing dominance of transactional systems.
Ultimately, this is a guide to fostering cultural change through mindfulness, compassion, and intentional action. It’s about creating spaciousness to notice, learn, and act—building a world where people with DD are seen for their gifts and capacities, not just their needs. If you’re ready to rethink how we support and include people with DD, this document offers practical insights and inspiration to get started.