Cultivating Thinking Hearts: A Guide to Lifesharing and Community Building

This insightful document, Cultivating Thinking Hearts, explores the transformative concept of lifesharing—an intentional way of living that fosters deep, meaningful relationships between people with and without developmental disabilities. Authored by Helen Zipperlen and John O’Brien, the book is a collection of letters and essays that reflect on the art of building healthy, inclusive communities.

Through personal stories, practical advice, and thoughtful reflections, the authors delve into the challenges and rewards of lifesharing. They emphasize the importance of mutual respect, vulnerability, and the cultivation of “thinking hearts” to create environments where everyone can thrive. ​ The document also addresses the need for safeguards to protect vulnerable individuals while promoting freedom, trust, and interdependence. ​

Readers will find guidance on navigating complex decisions, fostering community connections, and balancing individual needs with collective well-being. ​ The authors share their experiences with lifesharing households, intentional communities, and advocacy programs, offering a rich tapestry of ideas and practices for those seeking to build inclusive, supportive relationships.

Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, advocate, or simply someone interested in creating a more compassionate world, this document provides a wealth of inspiration and practical tools. Dive in to discover how lifesharing can transform lives and communities, one relationship at a time. ​