This video is a beautiful collection of reflections from our dear friend and mentor, John O’Brien. For over fifty years, John has been a guiding light for those of us who believe that everyone belongs. This selection of John’s perspectives and wisdom was edited from an interview with David Hasbury.
John invites us to rethink how we connect and plan with individuals. He emphasizes the importance of listening deeply and finding the right people to truly understand the unique experiences and gifts each person brings.
He challenges the common, surface-level ideas of autonomy, and encourages us to explore the deeper meanings of belonging, citizenship, and contribution to the common good.
He reminds us that people are not problems to be solved but mysteries to inspire wonder, highlighting the awe and privilege in recognizing each person’s individuality.
John notes that the most profound changes don’t usually start in big boardrooms; they begin in our neighborhoods, in our relationships, and in the quiet moments where we truly see one another. The key ingredients: love, listening, and the courage to imagine a world where no one is left out.
John describes person-centered planning as a collaborative, creative process that shapes collective intention about what truly matters to the person, fostering connections that lead to more belonging, respect, and opportunities in community life. We need to step away from old patterns and embracing new possibilities through co-creation and confident action.
This is an invitation to listen together and think about how we can build stronger, more humane communities right where we live.