In this insightful talk, John O’Brien explores how person-centered planning and the spirit of Ubuntu can transform support for people with developmental disabilities. He reminds us that real change happens when we create and protect space to simply be with one another, even if it feels like “wasted time.” John highlights the importance of restoring “hardened stories” — those limiting beliefs we carry — and encourages us to imagine bigger, richer life possibilities together
He challenges the current service systems, urging us to rethink public investment so it truly supports individuals, not just groups. At the heart of his message is Ubuntu’s powerful idea: “I am because we are,” emphasizing our shared vulnerability, interdependence, and hunger for justice John’s friendly, thoughtful approach invites us all to embrace imperfect efforts, resist cynicism, and build communities where everyone can contribute and belong. This talk is a must-watch for anyone interested in inclusion, justice, and meaningful connection.